Luxury or Necessity?

"...I'm just the kind of person who both thinks before they speak/post/write and has very, very little time..."

To think before one speaks: In the trade, we call that 'impulse control'. Some of us got it, some of us ain't. Both of us reap the rewards as well as the unwelcome consequences of the mode we have been assigned.

Time
Here are a few of the complaints Y have heard:
Every time I call, you are working on your blog.
When you are done on the computer, then you want to talk to me. Like I should now drop everything because you are finished.
How come you have to do that music all the time?
If you are too busy to talk to your ONLY son.......
Are you ever going to (insert the name of some stupid chore that Y could not care less about....)

As for you, Y believe you were recently complimented on how you have been using the blog to promote both your work and those who have been supporting it.

Will she cut off her nose to spite her face?
Y did.
Not recommended.